Just another day. I leave office and wait for an auto to ferry me home. A cheque I had deposited on Monday, should have been credited by now, I think to myself. It surely would help. I am listening to music. A ritual to lose my mind that sometimes can’t focus on life or work, into something that demands nothing. An auto stops and it is when I settle down with my bag, phone and earphones that I notice..a little child tucked away at the back of the seat in a little hollow. She is playacting with a plastic box..pretending it is a phone and eyeing mine with a beautiful, open smile.
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I ask the driver who she is and it begins. The story am not..was not prepared to listen to. I take off my ear phones. This is his daughter. She is not at home because there is no one there. His wife is at the hospital with their second daughter, a little baby girl who is sick and needs surgery. ” Gareeb aadmi ko hi maar padti hai sabse jyada,” he says and in the little space between his pain and helplessness, he notices another driver, struggling to drive his auto that has run out of petrol. He slows down, puts one foot on the back of the auto to push it to a nearby petrol station.
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He then tells me just how much money he needs. It is not much. Just about the same amount I spend on a high-end restaurant meal in a particularly lucrative month. He tells me that he is coming from his brother’s house where he had gone to beg for some money but was turned down. He has been running all over the city, seeking help in this rented auto. I am his first passenger today. Tears stream down his face. He wipes them with his sleeves and keeps driving. The story has not ended. The wife is polio stricken. His mother had given her word to a friend that he would marry her daughter and so he did. But they are happy together and he says, ” I could not have asked for a better wife..she never complains about what we don’t have.”
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The daughters have come to the couple after a wait of nine years and it obviously did not occur to them that they are not sons in a country less than crazy about daughters. It is the possibility of losing one of them that is making him cry. The auto has seen better days and he tells me that the newer ones do better business..the green ones. They have better mileage, they are less bumpy and he wishes he could have one of his own. But he jangles his pocket to show me what he really has. A few coins and his daughter is hungry and he has not been able to feed her the whole day. The little girl is giggling at me, smiling into the camera as I click her picture. Unaware of the tragedy that just might be unfolding in her parents’ life. “This will be the first ever picture clicked of her, ” he slows down to see the image and smiles.
I wonder if the money I have been waiting for has come in my account. I make him stop the auto near an ATM and check. The money hasn’t arrived yet and I can’t help him. So I ask him to meet me outside my apartment gate in the morning. I will check my account again and if the money has not yet come, I will borrow some and give him. He looks calm and dignified and asks me, “But how will I pay you back?”
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I tell him he will when he is ready. “Maybe, I can give you some every week, ” he says. He takes my number and poses with his child when I ask him to. His smile lights up his face. I am not a cynic but a little question nibbles my mind after father and daughter are gone. What, if he is lying? But what if he is not? If he is, I will have to postpone my favourite restaurant meal by a month. And maybe he will spend the money on something he needs more than me. And if he is telling the truth, maybe his baby daughter will come home to him, safe and sound after proper medical attention.
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I come home feeling a bit ashamed. At just how little I know of the world I live in. And how the money I spend on non-essentials without thinking could mean the difference between life and death for someone else.
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Same world. But with so many detached worlds swimming in it. Me with my earphones trying to drown real voices. He with a story he desperately wants someone to hear.
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there are so many lies floating around that we all become cynical and shut the voices behind our earphones…We even shut our conscience at times..so hard to sieve out genuine from the pack of shallow fabricated stories…hard..it is !!
Choices are limited..our pockets maybe full..we are towards becoming a POORER LOT !
:(((( wish you thought up some scheme where your readers could contribute and you could send this amount to the family
Hi Aindri…his immediate need was taken care of today..will post here if something more is required..thanks for caring
Wow!. Just little acts of kindness and they make such a difference.
Proud to know you. Happy that you count me as a friend 🙂
Even hunger couldn’t wipe that blissful smile of her’s! If only this world understood, but for.
Moneyball, this is what the world seems from space these days.
“..Duniya mein kitna gum hai…mera gum kitna kam hai….”..I m happy n proud that u could help him in ur own small way..which would mean a lot to him…whatever done with a pure n good intention always pays back…God bless
MUDDAT KE BAAD AAIENE SE RU B RU KYA HUEY , AAIENAA HUMEN DEKH KE HAIRAAN HO GAYAA.
ABHI BAHUT KUCH HAI JO JAAN NA BAAKI HAI.. HAMARE AAS PAAS….
OMIGOD Reema, so touching! And i perfectly understand your dilemma. Everytime i see a beggar i wonder, should i or should i not…begging they say is an industry, but what if i give them some money – even ten bucks- that will not make a dent in my pocket, so nowadays i carry some biscuits/bananas and give them to them, even chocolates, that way i at least help create a smile on their faces.
Reema, if this guy earns rs.28 per day and supports family of 4 people then he is not a poor according to our planning commission.
So easy to eradicate poverty in india. Isn’t it? All you need is to change definition of poverty. And even by definition of rs.28 (rs.22.50 for rural), 37% of population of 122 crore people live below poverty line.
And if we consider a reasonable figure of rs.80 or 100 then 70% of our population is poor. Just remove a creamy layer, you will find an ocean of poverty. And putting a few spoon full of sugar is not going to sweeten this ocean. All that this country need is to make its population as its asset. Just have a look around ur room. Ur TV is made in china, ur computer, ur fan, compressor of ur ac, ur watch, ur mobile, set top box, dvd all is coming directly or indirectly from china. So when we buy these things, we pay labor of its making to a chinese whereas our indian is sitting at home jobless. We sell iron ore to china, their people process it and hit us back with finished products and we sit jobless here. We need to produce our own needs, and even need to produce for this world so that it could engage our human labor, they will create wealth and raise our society above the poverty line.