I haven’t watched Homi Adajania’s Cocktail but from what I hear, it achieves something no different from the message sent by goons of the so called Hindu Janajagrana Vedike on Saturday who raided a resort in Padil, and thrashed and slapped girls for partying in “indecent clothes” and consuming, alcohol. Deepika Padukone’s Veronica was not thrashed literally maybe but was, am told, broken down… mind, body and soul in a film that packages moral policing in glossy, fruity colours and ultimately in the defeatist sub-text of how bad girls can find trouble but not love. So this group of men barged into a place called Morning Mist Home Stay at Padil and reportedly did what they did to protect our culture. I wonder, if the women were wearing sarees, would they have been spared? Just like Draupadi was? When she was almost disrobed in a royal court full of impassive onlookers? Who was to blame for what happened to her? Because we like to do that in this country. Blame the violation on the violated. Aah, we did, didn’t we? We blamed her for laughing at Duryodhana when he slipped and fell at Indrapratha. If only she hadn’t. Because you don’t expect a man to forget that kind of a slight now, do you?
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i think there is a reason for not having a male version of terms like pativrata, suhagan, vidhwa n randi. I think there is something common in all these terms.All these terms reflects dependence of woman on man, rather one man, a faithful and loyal wife. All these words were originated before pill-revolution era when a woman had to bear and rear her so many children alone and was completely dependent on a man economically. Taking advantage of her biological handicap, this male oriented society made all social laws laws n conventions according to male nature and convenience making woman suffer. And she will keep suffering unless she is ecomomically independent.
We need to change our roots and a woman has to be economically on her own
the blood boils. frustration rises. but who do i punch? there are such zealots and i have but two fists.
only thing i can hope to do is not stand for injustice and raise my child to not stand for it either.
Brilliant write up. It touched and moved me, or perhaps i should say, nudged and pinched…